Not to stray from the post but the driving point I wanna hit home is that one of the best things a man can do for his spiritual discernment is remove lusting/need for sex from his life. I’m not saying you can’t have sex. But to not let it blind you to the woman’s spiritual and mental nature in front of you. Most guys look past all that to get laid. Well you might just find if you are patient for a better woman then it will come with better sex too. Detaching = attracting
So let’s say the guy is attracting physically “hot” women. Let’s say it’s even multiple women and he can choose who he wants to date. Really doesn’t matter either if they don’t respect you. Imagine the embarrassment of going to an event with your friends and your woman is berating you publicly for trivial shit. They don’t care and won’t hold back if they feel you’re not being a man in their eyes. That “man” looks different for every girl btw. Now, I’d be lying to you if I said that my friends had the same reaction to me bringing my attractive girlfriend somewhere vs. the other one from the past. But eventually they see through the ruse too at her true character. Luckily my current girl has a great one.
I’ve dated both attractive and “ugly” women. I should preface this by saying I would never have previously felt ok calling them ugly on here if they did not first reveal to me their ugly narcissistic spirit. Been no saint myself and had to do a lot of growth, but I learned firsthand a woman’s attractiveness doesn’t really dictate her character and personality. She either respects you or not and that exchange kinda starts relatively soon after you meet her. Hence why it’s impossible to say a guy is crushing the dating game in that regard, because you never know he could have found a diamond in the rough (spiritually speaking, which is what we all know matters after you have become complacent with her “hotness”) or a downright liability. In all fairness I learned after that not to pursue someone who is your mirror image. We brought out each other’s faults.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
